" i think im lost in life
like those garbage is piling up in the dustbin
everytime i bloghopped or listen to any kind of stories/gossips/rumours
there will always be a word that will appear in all
one word
break up, cerai
and all those fuck shits
why cant everything be peaceful?
my family has been experiencing the same thing
earlier this year. my cousin whos a MALE went through a divorce.
because why?
his wife loved another man since LAST TIME?
OH WHY DID LAST TIME U CHOOSE TO MARRY MY COUSIN
U HAVE 2 KIDS SOME MORE
THE FIRST GREAT GRANDSON MY GRANDPARENTS HAD
AND U DARE TO SAY THIS NOW..
and and my auntie got a divorce too. cos her husband failed in his business
What the fuck? business is business. love is love. family is family
when ure at home put aside all those work related stuff
and guess what i just watch one movie where theres this 2 couple.
and its about having an affair and breaking up and divorce too.
OH its like my favourite word now
the moral of the story is
FOR THE FIRST SCENARIO
think about your kids first bitch. you're married. supposed to put others aside and always place ur kids first or u can say family first. happiness is another issue. grow up
FOR THE SECOND SCENARIO
ah dont wanna say. her husband wasnt a gentleman
FOR THE THIRD SCENARIO
if my future wife is having an affair, of course i am gonna get upset. i will be alone for dunno how many days or week but will finally realise when i see tears and unhappiness in my childrens eyes. for that i will give up my happiness for theirs. even though it will be awkward for me and my future wife that is
ONE WORD PEOPLE;
SACRIFICE "
That post, was written by Sufi Hakim on his blog. My dear friend, who claimed he has lost it and he wants to find his 'cure' soon. I cried reading his post. I cried on and on. Somehow, i was once like that.
Whatever it is, i hope you're okay. Shit happens. But that doesnt mean you'd have to stop and let it lead you. I've told you, "Kadang kalah, Allah menyembunyikan matahari. Meninggalkan kami dengan geruh dan petir." I feel like you need someone. And i'm always here okay? Insyaallah, everything will get better okay syg?
Ya Allah, please guide and protect your human creations from all these insanity and chaos. Too many eclipses and natural disasters in a lifetime is not a good sign.
Ya Allah, please guide my friend, lessen his burden. Please.
Sufi syg, the truth is, the 'cure', it's within you. Hatred won't bring you joy. You just have to calm down, and look at everything else that you and your family have gone through together. Realize that you are not alone. Show empathy. Try to put yourself in other's shoes and understand them.
Sometimes things don't go our way but that doesn't mean you should punish ourselves and cry and be sad. There's things in life that we don't have control over. But these things makes us stronger because we can only control ourselves to feel.
I love you Sufi Hakim, don't delude yourself. I'll be here for you okay? I'll always pray for you. Yakinlah kepada Allah.
Assalammualaikum.